Oh hell…I typed up this whole long post on the problems with gay dating these days, then my blogging editor completely crapped out on me and I lost the entire post. That's the first time that's happened! Well, since I can't recall most of what I wrote, I'll just give you a few quick tips.

• Gay dating is dead…and gay men killed it.

• Clubs and bars? Exercises in futility. Approaching a guy on the street? Could be cruisin' for a bruisin'. The Internet? Really only good for sex, hate to say. And the sites that aren't about the booty are usually filled with racist, narrow-minded idiots.

So for those out there who are successful in the gay dating game (I realize location also plays a role in this), how do you do it? Friends? Fag hag? Escort? Blackmail? Let a brotha know. Share you secrets. Lord knows we could all use 'em.

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