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Posted on 03/09/07 @ 8:31 pm
Oh hell…I typed up this whole long post on the problems with gay dating these days, then my blogging editor completely crapped out on me and I lost the entire post. That's the first time that's happened! Well, since I can't recall most of what I wrote, I'll just give you a few quick tips.
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Name's Karsh. 27. Country-born, city-raised, 
I hear you about gay dating. I would say dating in general sucks but it's particularly hard for gays. You pretty much list all the pitfalls of dating.
The current guy that I'm dating I saw him on a yahoo message board, emailed him, he emailed me back, we met, and four months later, we're still dating and have made it exclusive. I never thought that would ever happen to me. Miracles do happen.
Said by E — 03/11/2007 @ 4:45 pm
Gay dating has always been a bit sketchy, but I know what you're saying. I've been with my partner for years (nine of them) and I thank the stars that I don't have to go back out there and 'hunt'. I wish you the best. I like what I have seen of your blog so far.
Peace Out ~ Juan
Said by Juan — 03/11/2007 @ 4:49 pm
prayer and lying has helped me in the past - lol
seriously, you just have to pay your dues and hopefully someone comes along that it worth dating. In the meantime just focus on yourself - which you seem to be doing well.
Said by George — 03/12/2007 @ 4:16 pm
yeah, there doesn't seem to be a secret except for forcing yourself to talk to guys — and, ideally, get out of the house (unless interested in asking out the pizza delivery guy). "mr. right" will appear purely by chance, so you can just increase the chances.
oh oh — and have a short memory. no point in remembering guys that stop returning your calls.
Said by khalil — 03/13/2007 @ 5:26 pm
hey i can be your fag hag Karsh, it'll just have to be a long distance relationship
Said by kristen — 03/13/2007 @ 10:28 pm
It's not easy to 'find' someone, but the most important thing you can do is improve yourself so that you are right when that special person comes along.
I like the blog … keep up the good work!
Said by houstonmacbro — 03/14/2007 @ 6:27 pm
Yeah gay dating is sooooo hard 'cause most of them want sex sex sex! I remember when i started dating guys is was a hell time to find a guy that i could just TALK , all of them wanted one part of my body lol. But the internet i think its a great "tool" to find new guys. For example i found my guy on a gay dating website and we are still together, 4 months & counting. So… be positive… n remember practise makes perfect
Said by Tom — 03/24/2007 @ 7:29 am
Location i'd say, i never see other gays in my neighborhood, in fact, I don't see hardly anyone in my apartment complex (Atlantans are very disconnected with each other). I don't date anymore, end of story. I just make "friends" and fall in love with them, and later create a lot of drama and end up losing those friends:)
Said by jeff — 03/24/2007 @ 10:08 pm
I agree that you just have to work on yourself in the meantime my partner and I found each other on aol in a chat room six years ago. it can happen
Said by robert — 03/28/2007 @ 1:00 am
Always type it up first then paste it into the post. Then, of course, view the page…make edits…view the page….garrr!….view the page…edit…edit…
Said by Joe — 04/04/2007 @ 10:21 am